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Girls wearing pants and skimpy clothes?.

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Praise be to Allaah. The definition of the ‘awrah of children, male and female, is something for which there is no clear evidence in the Qur’aan and Sunnah. The view of most of the fuqaha’ is that when a girl reaches the age where she may be desired by those of a sound nature, then her ‘awrah is like that of an adult woman. But if she has not reached that age, then it is permissible to make concessions about her hijab until she does reach that age. Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: There is no ruling on the ‘awrah of a very young girl, and she does not have to cover her face, neck, hands and feet, and a small girl should not be obliged to do that. But when a girl reaches an age when men could be attracted to her and desire her, then she should observe hijab so as to ward off fitnah and evil. This varies from one woman to another; some of them grow quickly and start looking attractive and others do not.   With regard to wearing skimpy c...

tips to a sound upbringing

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Dear parent, how do you imagine the successful way of upbringing to be? In other words, what is your view of the proper way to discipline the behavior of your child? I think that discipline in your point of view is the way which obliges our children to submit to what we say without having the right to express any objection. Dear parent, I may agree with you on the definition of discipline, but I differ with you in the way it is applied. The best way to discipline your children is to teach and guide them, more than obliging them to be disciplined. The process of improving a child’s behavior is an educational, not a punitive process. In this case, you should prefer a smile to frowning, a calm voice to shouting and a reward to punishment. In this article, we offer you thirteen tips that will significantly affect your methodology while you change your child’s behavior. These thirteen tips will form a new atmosphere for discipline making it an easy matter. However, you s...

The Hijab is Beautiful

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Indeed, all praises are due to Allah, we praise Him, seek His Aid and beg for His Forgiveness. We seek refuge in Allah from the evil in our souls and from the bad consequences of our deeds. Whomever Allah guides, no one can lead that person astray and whomever Allah leads astray no one can guide that person. I bear witness that there is nothing worthy of worship except Allah Who is alone and without any partners and I bear witness that Muhammad (Peace and blessings be upon him) is His slave and final Prophet and Messenger sent to mankind. Certainly the most perfect speech is the Speech of Allah and the finest guidance is the guidance of Muhammad (Peace and blessings be upon him). The worst of affairs are those that are innovated into this religion as every innovation is misguidance and every misguidance is astray and every going astray leads to the Hell Fire. It often occurs to me that many of my sisters in Islam are not properly encouraged once they begin to observe th...

The danger of bad use Facebook

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In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful Praise be to Allah and peace be upon the messenger of Allah.......... Facebook website which is used for peoples' acquaintance and social relations, is considered the most important hypothetical community on the internet whereas its users number all over the world reached 200 million till now. The Arab users ratio is high, as there are 900,000 user of Egypt, 250,000 of Saudi Arabia and 300,000 of Lebanon. This website is available in forty language and they are planning for launching another sixty language, also this website witnesses a steady increase especially from the Arab world. The problem isn't in the existence of a website for people to know each other but it lies in what happens after this acquaintance, between whom and the aims behind it . There are tens of thousands of groups who are participating in different fields which some of which are dirty. The ratio of female users in this website reache...